Thursday, April 20, 2017

[The Life of Shaun #552] Updates

I just got off of Skype with Pops - he is doing well (again).  Unfortunately, he was rushed by ambulance back to the hospital a bit under two weeks after his bypass, as he was having trouble breathing.  After several tests and scans, they confirmed that he had fluid build-up around the heart and lungs, and the pressure was affecting his airflow.  Two Mondays ago, they operated again to drain the fluid, and he stayed in the hospital another week.  All's going well now, and he's being very well looked after at home by my Aunt Peggi and Uncle Rudy, and my cousin Tracy is popping in from time to time to be our surrogate.

New York was wonderful and heartbreaking.  David Vansuch hosted a fantastic memorial, full of love for David Bell.  I was so happy I was able to be there for it, and to be near the dear friends we had in common, with other people who knew and understood him.  As my friend Stepfeven said, "Really lovely.  Like an Irish wake.  I was hungover til 5 the next day."  That is exactly the kind of send-off David would want.

It's been a tough several weeks, Mama Berry, Pops, David Bell - far too much sadness and worry in my feed.  But I never went a second without the support of friends and family, and I am very lucky for that.

I'm glad to be back home in London, back in the routine, and hopefully staying put awhile - well, by my standards, anyway.

Cheers,
Shaun

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Wednesday, April 12, 2017

[The Life of Shaun #550] David Bell Took Manhattan

I can remember the exact moment I realised I wasn't leaving New York.  I was sitting on David Bell's bed with him up in Jersey City Heights, Bacardi and Cokes in hands, watching something on TV.  Jessica Calvello was standing at the entrance to the room and had made some crass joke, and we were just laughing.  Up until then, my plan had been to move back to San Francisco after I got my BSc from Stevens, but at that moment I knew that was it, I wasn't going back.  New York was my home.





David10567 and I met in the AOL chatroom NYCm4m.  He was getting ready to make the move from Houston, TX, and chatted me up to get hints and tips about life in the Big Apple.  At the end of the conversation, he asked if he could add me to his list, David Bell Takes Manhattan, and we agreed to meet up once he got into town.  We finally met in person when I picked him up in front of Big Cup and we headed over to meet Todd Martin at Beige, where that night we met a huge cast of characters, from Drunk Scott to Nicholas Syphilis, many of who remained in my social circles for the rest of my New York life.





For the next years, David and I were inseparable; kindred spirits who were overjoyed to have found each other.  We had both fled stifling suburbia in the American West to find that something we knew was out there, and we searched for and found it together.  We spilled cosmos across the island of Manhattan, from Barracuda in Chelsea, to the Mineshaft in the Meat Packing District, to the Cock in the East Village.  We made a legend out of John Street (Joe Birdsong!  Sparkplugboi!), nary a $2 beer night passed at Phoenix without our attendance, and we knew all too well what sunrise looked like from 18th and 10th.  David Bell did his best to culture me, taking me to shows, sometimes overshooting, but mostly hitting it just right with Kiki & Herb, Joe's Pub and Hedwig.  I made him travel a bit, and brought him to the Black Party.  We lived and breathed New York; it was everything to us.  But just as often as our big nights out, we spent nights in, on his bed, drinking, talking, watching TV, gossiping about boys, and feeling free.





A few years ago, David fell off the proverbial cliff, having taken a bit too much advantage of the loose bar management at West Bank Cafe.  For a while he held it together enough to stay in New York, but eventually the realities of his declining functionality forced him back to Houston at a time when his mother, sweet, sweet Nancy, needed him just as much as he needed the pause button.  For two years, he doted on his mother and took care of the closeted, dying grandfather next door, before finally returning to New York City a year or so ago.  Though David Bell made it back to New York, he never really made it back.  He was as clever and witty as ever, but that spark was gone.  All those that were close to him wanted desperately for him to get up that cliff back to us, but it was just too steep.  Every time we felt like his hand was in reach, he slipped back down a little bit.





David Bell's roommate found him dead in his bed on Sunday.  The cause of death is unknown, but is also inconsequential.  He is gone, and everything else that he might have brought to the world has gone with him.  David was an acerbic, sharp comedic playwright - but that was an easy win for him, laughs came readily.  On some of our nights in, David would tell me about his weightier life experiences, and how he wanted to translate those to the stage once he had become experienced enough to write the script, and well-known enough to take the risk.  David Bell could have been a few successes away from writing the next great American play, but now that can never be.





I've said many times that my time in New York made me the person I am.  But really, just as much as the city, my friendship with David Bell made me the person I am.  I've been fortunate to have several solid, lasting, true friendships, but I met David Bell at a time and place in my life when I was screaming out for a friend like him.  He not only accepted and supported me, but encouraged, embraced and loved everything about me, right down to the ridiculous.  I never fully accepted and loved myself until I had him by my side, not just letting me be me, but celebrating it, just as I celebrated everything about him.





So with David Bell's death, I feel like I am losing him a second time.  We both knew we were never going to go back to that time, those amazing first New York years.  But as long as he was around, there was someone who understood what those years were and what they meant.  I absolutely cannot imagine my life without David Bell; he changed me.  And it really sucks he didn't go out with the standing ovation he deserved.


David Bell!  You need a drink!







With a determined chin,
HudsonBoi




No, thank you, Uncle David.  Thank you.




Though most of his journal has probably been lost forever, I have these two entries saved from earlier shares.  So for one final encore, I give you David Bell Takes Manhattan:


This is a series of diary entries chronicling my departure from my home of 26 years to New York City. Any questions, comments, propositions (sexual or otherwise) or if you would like to be added to the journal mailing list, please send me an email.

Dec 10, 2001


If in the course of this journal entry I can impress upon you only one tidbit of advice, please let it be the following: When your flight time is equal to or more than three hours, chasing a Xanax with a cocktail will bring you peace, sweet peace. "I suppose it's the heavy turbulence that's making that baby shriek directly behind me...and yet...I don't care....i don't care..."

It took me twenty-eight years to get to San Francisco. As a child, my parents dragged me all over Ohio, Virginia, Arkansas, Kentucky and I know the layout of Oklahoma a little more than I'd care to. The Bell family singers never really ventured to any of those places that might have a gay population large enough to organize a parade. We were always visiting relatives which meant that on a Saturday night in say, Grove, Oklahoma, the most happening scene in town was the kegger in the parking lot of the local Walmart. I suppose I could feel cheated by this but, c'mon, what gay boy wants to be tethered to his mother the first time he alights the corner of Market and Castro anyway?


Instead and fortunately, I was tethered to my best friend Shaun, who was spending the last of his vacation days like a hypoglycemic four year old at a gumball machine (I tell him that all he needs to do is give up his medical insurance, dental plan, 401K, stable salary, possibilities for career advancement, and become a waiter like me and then he can take a vacation whenever he wants, but he just won't listen.). Shaun used to live in San Francisco, and so guilt by association dictated that I was officially not a tourist. He did grudgingly swing me by the big red bridge and the wharf, but our goal was to log as many hours inside of a bar as California state law would allow. After a couple of days we had the routine down pat: wake up at noon, watch a movie (Dammit Speilberg!! How could you let Christopher Columbus ruin Harry Potter?), eat for cheap, tour at least 3 bars, then being the utter failure that I am, I would crash and take a taxi home, fall asleep, and be jarred awake at 5AM by Shaun wanting me to buzz him in. I was however sober long enough to make a few observations about the city along the way. And since the title of this epic does include the word "Manhattan"......

David Bell Notes Eleven Glaring Differences Between San Francisco and New York City.

by

David Bell

1. The architecture, basic layout and general cleanliness of San Francisco makes New York City look like a landfill in Bangladesh.


2. In San Francisco, the taxi drivers speak English. In many cases, it is their first language.


3. Non-tipped employees are nicer in San Francisco. A man at Blockbuster Video went out of his way to help us find a video. I was beside myself.


4. There are more homeless people in San Francisco, and more gay people in New York. Believe it or not, that's just the way it is.


5. The good citizens of San Francisco are perhaps just a little too creative when it comes to the styling of one's own facial hair.


6. Unlike NYC where even rainbow flags are passe, in San Francisco even the hanky code is still alive and kicking.


7. A goddamned 2 liter of Coca-Cola was $2.50 in San Francisco!! (Meaning it's too expensive. I'm not so jaded by New York's high cost of living that I don't know when I'm being ripped off!)


8. San Francisco's little theater scene is so predominantly gay that in an ad for a new romantic play they specifically listed that it was about a "heterosexual relationship".


9. Not once did I see anyone rushing to get anywhere.


10. You cannot smoke in bars in California. I did not realize this until I came home at 2AM and noticed that I did not smell like my grandfather.


11. The homes and clothing in San Francisco are very colorful, unlike here in NYC where we have 1700 words for the color "gray".


San Francisco is the most beautiful city I have ever seen. I got the sense that everyone who lived there actively took part in keeping it that way by doing everything from enacting legislation to cleaning up after their dog. I can't say for sure why this is, perhaps the large population of artists and liberals are just inherently more aesthetic, or perhaps it's because once a century San Francisco is practically destroyed and they get a new chance to rebuild. My theory is that in San Francisco it is a lot easier to notice a really pretty building or a really ugly one. At least twice a day a Franciscan find himself at the top of a hill and he's able to look out and see a large portion of his city. I don't think anyone anywhere would ever want to waste a view.


Loved the visit. Glad to be back amongst the squalor. Take Xanax. Peace out.


With a determined chin,
David Bell




 

May 31st, 2002

RANDOM GUIDELINES FOR CASUAL-SOCIAL-SEXUAL INTERACTION IN NEW YORK CITY IN THE FIRST HALF OF 2002

by

David Bell

and

The notoriously jaded boy-oracle known as his best friend Shaun Coley

 

For obvious reasons this list will be homocentric; however, heterosexuals are more than welcome to relate to any item that does not collide with their breedful agendas

 

--If you are not willing to perform fellatio on the first date then you either need to find a more attractive suitor or reexamine your boundaries.


--Anyone who lives below 59th street decides who travels where.  Above 59th you do have some leverage if your suitor lives in an outer borough, for outer-borough dwellers have no choice at all.  However, he who travels gets Chinese delivery paid for them.


--It's okay to point out another person's ass while you're on a date…We are all people watchers.  That's why we moved here.


--If a suitor gets uncomfortable when you ask him how much he pays in rent, that means one of three things: he just moved to NYC and doesn't understand that this is an obligatory question, he still has shame issues about his exorbitant realtor fee, or he lives with his parents on Long Island.


--The dating scene in NYC is a tangled tangled web.  More often than not you will discover that you or your date have slept with the same person.  No need to be embarrassed.  Kiss and tell.  It will make for delightful dinner conversation.


--Do not bother asking a New Yorker out on a Sunday night.  That are at home with their friends watching Sex And The City and/or Six Feet Under and/or The Sopranos.


--Don't lend your porn out and expect to get it back in a timely manner.


--It is best to maintain suitors in each neighborhood so that if your date doesn't work out, you only have to walk a few blocks to get what you're looking for.


--Anyone who calls you the next day is a stalker.


--NYC is a melting pot of venereal disease.  Those with who get off on risk can get their fill.


--There are over 20 million people in NYC metro.  If you have a toe-sucking-clown-sushi fetish then there is a club for you.  There is someone for everyone.  Bitching about being alone is simply tiresome.


--New Yorkers crave stress-free relationships.  They get enough drama from their careers, roommates, landlords, subways, terrorists, etc…


--NYC attracts addicts.  If moderation is what you truly seek then you belong west of the Hudson.


MAY WE TAKE A MOMENT PLEASE


To all of you out-of-towners, this list may come off as self-important, exclusive, snotty, and just plain grandiose.  This is intentional.  Let's not forget who invented the velvet rope .

 


INTERNET HOOKUP SUBSECTION


--You need a face pic for them to come to your place.  You need at least 2 face pics to go to theirs.  If two trains are involved, you need headshots, body shots and several cock shots.

…Furthermore, when you are choosing which self-pic to scan, remember: NO sunglasses, NO hats, and if you're posing in front of the Statue Of Liberty, we should not be able to see the entire monument in the shot.


--"VGL" doesn't necessarily mean you're gonna end up with someone "Very Good Looking"… but it does mean that you're gonna end up with someone very cocky…which can be just as fun.


--"Pig"="Poz"


--Even the most pessimistic pessimist is an optimist when it comes to imagining what his latest Internet crush is like in person.  All you have to go on is a few JPGS and a hundred or so sentences of electronic banter.  Do NOT emotionally invest in someone you have not yet experienced in the third dimension.


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--Manhattan is a model magnet.  Seasoned New Yorkers have learned that pretty doesn't necessarily mean sexy.


--Attitude is as recklessly intolerable as it is recklessly abundant.


--Never date a Caucasian with dreadlocks.  You're just asking for trouble.


--For The Theatre Junkies:  First date: De La Guarda.  Birthday: Chicago .  Passing The Co-op Board: The Producers.  Breakup: Les Miserables.


--Fuck actors.  Do NOT date actors.  Fuck them…cuz there ain't no more show after the curtain goes down at the end of the night.


--If you want a relationship to last, you should make sure it's difficult to see eachother.  Interborough trysts will maintain energy for a while, but it's best to put a few states in between if you want it to last.  Try Philly.  Your friends will disown you but the provincial will worship the subway platform you trod upon.


--There is a significant difference between East Village Punk and East Village Hippie.  The East Village Punk will throw you on the bed, spit in your face and forget your name.  The East Village Hippie will claim to have a degree in shiatzu and want to read your astrological chart.  Choose the punk every time.


--Once you have found your foreverlover, retaining your one bedroom Chelsea co-op is simply obnoxious.  Find a house with a yard on Staten Island and sublet your joyboy-flat to someone who will put it to good use (like us!)


--Fleet week only comes once a year.  Carpe Testes.


With determined chins,

David Bell and Shaun Coley



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Monday, March 27, 2017

[The Life of Shaun #549] Update on Pops

Doc just came out - surgery is done, they did four bypasses, he's all sewn up and in the post-op room. We'll be able to see him in about an hour, but they'll keep him sedated overnight. 👍🏻

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Sunday, March 26, 2017

[The Life of Shaun #548] Greetings from Gilbert, AZ!

Hello from the Valley of the Sun!

As many of you know, I went to see Lottie and Rob in Greater Mmaassbbrree over the weekend.  However, as has become an unwelcome family tradition, the weekend was cut short with some bad news.  After having an "incident" on a trip to Vegas (again) with my sisters a week ago, Pops had an angiogram on Friday.  The doctors felt the situation was bad enough that he is going to have to have a quadruple bypass tomorrow, so I took the Mmaassbbrree-Amsterdam-London-Phoenix express yesterday to be out here with him for the surgery and recovery.  It sounds scary, and of course it is, but the positive slant is Pops is in good enough health that they are willing to operate on him, which is a consideration at 75, and he is expected to do well.

A lot of people who know and love him are on this list, so I will keep you posted.  Pops goes in at 7:30 tomorrow, with the surgery scheduled for 9:30, and it is expected to take 5-6 hours.  After that, he'll be in ICU for at least 24 hours, and then in the hospital for some days, depending on his recovery.

Today we're going to relax at Tracy's and Kevin's, who, in addition to putting me up, are providing a healthy early dinner for us and cousin Tommy, who also flew out yesterday.  I might sneak in a glass of wine, too.

Cheers,
Shaun

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Sunday, February 26, 2017

[The Life of Shaun #547] Mama Berry



Mama Berry died sometime Wednesday night into Thursday morning.  She had a heart attack in her sleep after a day of laughing and joking with Papa Berry and listening to a singer who had come to the care home to perform for the residents in the evening.  Laughing and singing were two of the things Mama Berry was best at.  All those who had Mama Berry in their lives knew her as a proud Hawaiian and a woman of love who managed to live joyously, despite enduring tragedies that had no business darkening the life of a woman of her character.

At the end of my Junior year of high school, my parents decided to leave the neon flash of the Strip for the prairie lands of their youths, where riverboat gaming was just starting up.  I moved with them, visions of Chicago and its possibilities dancing in my head.  Once I was there, the realities of the exurbs and the limited opportunities of a semi-rural high school became plain, and I wanted nothing more than to return for my senior year as a Sundevil to be with my friends, choir and band.  On one of my frequent calls with my friend and choirmate, Mike Berry (aka Kawika), he put the phone down and asked his parents if I could come live with them.  I'm sure some responsible arrangements were made between my parents and his, but I don't remember them, and a few days later, I was on a plane back to Sin City.

The Berrys' oldest son, Hoku, had just moved out, so I was put up in my own room, given use of Mama Berry's blue Honda and taken in as a member of the family.  Every morning she woke up two bleary-eyed teenage boys, and made us fried egg sandwiches while we got ready.  A lover of music and the arts, Mama Berry was heavily involved with and fully supportive of Kawika's and my participation in Dr. Jensen's choirs, my clarinetting in Mitta Fu's bands, Kawika's roles in the school theatre, and all their many, many commitments.  She never missed a performance, and she opened her arms and heart to everyone, especially the outcasts.  She was good people through and through.

Not many years after I moved out, Hoku died of a ruptured brain aneurysm at around the age of 30, leaving behind a young grandchild.  A few years later, Mama Berry had a stroke which took away her ability to speak and much of the use of the left side of her body.  It was heartbreaking to see such a big personality silenced and stilled, requiring 24/7 care rather than giving it herself.  For several years, it seemed like she had acquiesced to this lot in life, but in recent years she had become more active, going to church again and on outings with Papa Berry.  The last time I visited, when I introduced the Berrys to Sushil, we met up at a Hawaiian restaurant, and it was so good to see her out of the care home.  She looked healthier, happier and more tuned into the world around her.  Her face lit up when we were reminiscing, and I was telling the story of Sushil and me, and she gave me a long, tight bearhug when we said goodbye.

It's very sad that she's gone so soon after her life seemed to be trending up again.  But I am glad that she had happier last years with Papa Barry than could have been, and so grateful that she went in her sleep.  After all the hardships she endured, she deserved at least that.

Mama Berry loved her church and singing in its choir.  In lieu of flowers, I have chosen to make a donation in her honour.  If you would like to do the same, the address is:

St. James the Apostle Roman Catholic Church
1920 N. Martin Luther King Blvd.
Las Vegas, NV 89106


Thank you for letting me be part of your life and family, Mama Berry.  I love you and will miss you dearly.

Haole Boy





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Tuesday, February 07, 2017

[The Life of Shaun #546] Remember the Cheeto!


This is the last dying breath of the America that was.  All we have to do is sit tight, watch the show, and live through it to see the America that will be.  It's a demographic certainty.


2016 was a wrenching year.  And as the shambles of Trump's first weeks roll into the disaster of triggering Article 50 next month, my soon-to-be-demoted British (soon-to-be English?) passport cannot save me from the madness of 2017.  All I can do is hope that we, and the world, come out of the other side of these next four years more understanding and contemplative than damaged.  The well-trodden alternative is ugly.

I josh and daydream about backup Brexit plans - Dublin, Calgary, Wellington, Cape Town - but in all honesty, I don't want to leave London.  I have no desire to leave my global city, my friends and my life to rebuild again.  So I pray we find our way as a lonely, little island in a big, competitive world, that I continue to be gainfully employed and London doesn't turn into Birmingham-on-Thames.

I keep positive by thinking about the long game.  Ever since humans stopped hunter-gathering and began putting down roots, they have been on an inexorable journey towards a global world.  From small villages to towns to cities to nations to international economic and political unions, look past the wobbles and the trend is clear.

Dissect the 51.9% who voted for Brexit and see that 73% of 18-24 year-olds voted to remain.  By the time article 50 is triggered, about 300,000 leave voters will have died, replaced by about 365,000 new remainers, bringing that margin of victory down to 50.4%.  Remainers aren't going to suddenly turn xenophobic and insular.  And there's a whole slew of UK-born children of EU-immigrant parents nearing voting age; they won't be forgetting the ties that bind.




Look at the details of Trump's 2.9m vote loss to Hillary Clinton and see the crumbling white-haired, white-skinned wall that even America's rural-skewed electoral system can't hold up much longer.  Since 2015, more non-white babies have been born in America than white.  America's biggest states are already at or approaching being minority-majority, and by 2045, whites will be in the minority nationwide.  The leaders of tomorrow will have no option but to be open and inclusive if they want to have a political future.





My friend, PD, has fittingly taken to calling Trump "the Cheeto".  With every erratic, base-pleasing order coming out of the Oval Office, with each passing alternative fact, fabricated massacre and Brexit lie, I think about the generations that are just becoming politically aware.  I think about how they will look at Farage, his mechanic May, and Trump and reject them and the regressive parties they represent for years and years to come.  Like the Alamo, I hope these collective memories will outlast those who were actually around to bear witness to the disaster, and we'll long hear yelled out the (figurative, ballot-box) battle cry:

"Remember the Cheeto!"






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Tuesday, January 10, 2017

The Life of Shaun #546] The Mother City

The final destination on our honeymoon was Cape Town - and what an absolute joy it was.  We were there for a full week, and I could have easily stayed longer.  I can't remember the last city I went to where that was the case; normally a long weekend is enough just about anywhere.  Cape Town is not a cerebral city - it lacks the historic depth and economic heft of Johannesburg - but it drips with beauty, charm, ease, and, for whites and tourists at least, levensvreugde.

Like Rio de JaneiroSan Francisco and Sydney, Cape Town's natural setting seems almost too perfect to be happenstance.  The city sits in a bowl, nestled between the Atlantic Ocean, jaunty peaks and the lofty expanse of Table Mountain.  To the South lies the majestic Cape Peninsula, to the East lies wine country, and the climate is temperate.

If it sounds like I am gushing, it's because I am.  Cape Town has its problems: it's got plenty of poverty, sprawl, inadequate infrastructure and crime that's high by European standards.  But it's less segregated than Johannesburg, safer than many American cities, and is reasonably well run by the opposition Democratic Alliance, free from the cronyism and corruption and plagues what's become of Nelson Mandela's ANC.

We stayed at a fabulous gay guest house, which serves breakfast until a very respectable hour.  We had perfect weather the first day, so took up the opportunity to go up Table Mountain and do a city tour, getting all the rigorous touristing out of the way on day one.  Then each day we slept in late, lingered at the breakfast table talking to other gushing tourists from around the world, and then headed out on another exploration: the waterfront, Robben Island, Camp's Bay, the Cape of Good Hope, Bo-Kaap, Stellenbosch - usually capped off with a drink in Cape Town's diminutive, but enjoyable, gay scene.  Not the stuff of haughty drama, but one fantastic day followed by another.  Amazing.

I knew I would like Cape Town.  I've never heard a bad word said of it.  But I didn't realise how I would love it.  There's something understated about it, despite its natural beauty; it's a bit player on the global stage, and even plays second fiddle on its home turf to brash Johannesburg.  It seems eager to please, but not like it's trying to show off; it knows it's in a sketchy neighbourhood, but it also knows what it's got.  It's simply lovely.  I can't wait to go back.

Sala kakuhle,
Shaun



Table Mountain from our room.


Sushil the Redeemer.


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Sushil had been bugging me about taking a helicopter ride for months. In Cape Town, I finally relented.


Camps Bay, which felt like it should be painfully over-touristy, but was really great.  We went a couple of times, including for a brilliant extended parting lunch at Mezepoli.


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The CBD, with Table Mountain behind.  Much of the modern downtown was water until it was filled in during the 1940s.


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​Older
 downtown.


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Urban edge in Woodstock, perfect for galleries and hipsters.


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District Six, just Southeast of downtown, was a residential neighbourhood within the main bowl of central Cape Town.  Its 60k+ residents were removed in the 1970s by the Apartheid government and the neighbourhood razed to make room for new whites-only developments.  Some of the area was redeveloped, but most of it still lies barren due to a combination of protests, legal manœuvres, and the economic reality of international sanctions.  The area is now in a turf war between those who want to leave it as is to serve as a memorial, those whose historic rights of relocation have been recognised, and developers salivating over a large tract of prime real estate in a city on the up.


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Cape Town and Table Mountain, seen from the boat heading out to Robben Island
the prison where Nelson Mandela was imprisoned for 18 of his 27 years behind bars.


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The quarry where Mandella and other prisoners were made break rocks, and stack and restack them.


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Mandela's 
​cell ​
block.


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Downtown Stellenbosch, the charming heart of South Africa's wine country.


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They take their trees very seriously in Stellenbosch.


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City Hall, with a Mandela sculpture that's immediately apparent in the camera lens, but hard to discern with the naked eye.


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We decided to take the Bites & Sites tour, which combined a bit of history while walking around downtown sampling artisanal bread, locally-grown organic vegetables and, of course, wine, before heading out to the vineyards.  It was a great choice - a good balance between town and country, and gave a lot more colour to this localvore foodie haven than a full day of cellar tours could have.


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No, this...this...this is the one we want!  @Simonsig


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Hout Bay, a suburb of Cape Town on the Cape Peninsula.


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Boulders Beach on the Cape is home to a large penguin colony.


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And wine!
​  Don't forget about the wine!​


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We made it!


And celebrated with a bottle at lunch.  Cheers!


It's a personal choice
Shaun H. Coley ~ Shadwell ~ Tower Hamlets ~ London E1 ~ UK ~ shaunism.blogspot.co.uk