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Saturday, 30 July 2016

[The Life of Shaun #531] Finally facing my Waterloo

To continue his education in European heritage and culture, Sushil and I packed off to Stockholm for this year's Eurovision. Eurovision, despite its name, is a song contest with contestants from as far afield as Azerjiban, Israel and Australia. It was started after WWII as a way to help unite a fractured continent, and is the stage from which both ABBA* and Céline Dion were launched onto the world. Over the years, its popularity outside the continent's borders has caused it to expand to non-European countries with (sometimes aspirational) Western ideals. It is very popular within its constituent countries, and wildly so withing their gay communities. It is our World Cup.

Stockholm is a beautiful city, but in a muted Scandinavian way, handsome and proud, not flashy or pandering. The city is actually an archipelago, covering myriad islands spreading out towards the Baltic Sea, and whose most far-flung islets serve as weekend- and Summer-homes for Stockholm's chattering classes. The city is currently under a lot of pressure. Geography and heritage limit its urban footprint, but the population demands of a strong economy and welcoming culture are coming into direct conflict with Stockholm's height restrictions and regulated rents. But that was no concern of ours, as we stayed at my friend Stefan's fabulous central (rent-regulated) 1800s period flat, which made a perfect base for exploring worthwhile Stockholm by foot and Uber.

On Friday night, we went to the judges night of the Eurovision final. They actually do the final twice, on Friday (when the judges vote) and Saturday (when the audience votes), so they can tape Friday's performance as a back-up for Saturday's live broadcast. This worked out perfectly, as we got to see the show, but didn't have to hang around for the two hours of audience voting and results. That we did on Saturday night in the comfort of Stefan's flat, where he hosted a Eurovision party (the proper way to watch). My favourite of the night was Australia, though my iTunes favourite is Sweden. Sushil thought Hungary's entrant was very talented, but Ukraine came out on top with a typically political Eurovision win, which I was fine with, considering how much effort and dazzle homophobic, aggressive Russia put into its number.

It was a very successful educational trip! Sushil is coming along just fine.

Hälsningar,

Shaun

*When we mentioned this fact to Sushil, he asked "Who's ABBA?" Stefan and I recoiled in horror and spent the end of the first night educating him over YouTube and wine. He is now an expert.

Swedish church, near Stefan's

The Swedish royal palace, where Prince Carl Philip lives...and bathes.

Looking out towards town hall from the old city

And the old city from the town hall

The streets on the island that make up the oldest part of Stockholm are winding and narrow.

And its central square hosts a gay cafe/bar.

Like many European capitals, Stockholm is redeveloping disused docks into trendy housing for urban professionals.

The central island (old city) from the water

Stockholm was decked out to welcome Eurovision.

A timely window dressing in a posh department store

Even the post boxes were spruced up.

Our seats weren't bad at all!

Sushil's favourite showing off his, erm, singing talent.

Basking in the warm glow of Hungary.

And to wish everyone a fond farewell, ABBA, of course.

Shaun H. Coley ~ Shadwell ~ Tower Hamlets ~ London E1 ~ UK ~ shaunism.blogspot.co.uk

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Thursday, 28 July 2016

[The Life of Shaun #530] Dos mas, por favor

After eight months of marriage, we decided that Sushil's liver was trained up enough to meet Russ in person. We jumped the gun a little bit on that, but still managed a fabulous time. Russ had just come out from under a Cirquetastic hurricane and was ready for a gay old time, and on that we delivered.

First up was Barcelona, quite possibly the loveliest city in Europe. It's on the Mediterranean coast, nestled between mountains and the sea, with generous sunshine and good genes. The city was the home of Gaudí, Spain (mostly) stayed out of WWII, and then suffered the stasis of dictatorship until democratic elections in 1982, leaving a thoroughly unspoilt European city that has the bonus of being surprisingly affordable (well, pre-Brexit sterling crash, anyway). Lara, Lisa and Gabby came for the weekend as well, joining us and our locals-in-common, Howard & Sergio, and, from my Paris days, Swedish Stefan.

We midweeked in London, and then it was off to Maspalomas, The Gayest Place on Earth. I'd heard about it, but I never really quite understood just how gay it was until we were there. Maspalomas is a city, albeit a holiday one, but gay Maspalomas is a multistory strip mall, catering to every need and taste in one drunk-walkable complex. We had a bit of trouble adjusting to the schedule, as the only people who start evenings later than Spaniards are Spaniards on holiday. But we got there, eventually seeing the opening, at least, of the main club by our final night.

Despite the silly fun, I didn't fare well in the sun and heat and was ready to get back to Blighty by the end of the long weekend. It was a great time, but would've been even better five years ago, and has safely nudged me into being comfortable with never going to Ibiza. Best of all was seeing Russ after far too long and introducing him properly to Sushil. Now we just need to work on that liver training...

Adiós,

Shaun

Enjoying lunch

On the beach. I'm sure there are supposed to be sights in Barcelona somewhere worth seeing...

Ah, there they are!

The incomparable Sagrada Família. We didn't get a picture of it from the taxi between bars, so I lifted this one.

Breakfast in Maspalomas.

Lunch!

The family-friendly Yumbo centre.

Many, many levels of gay. You start the evening at ground level and work up through the night.

Sushil enjoyed the pool, whilst I enjoyed a toe's worth of sunshine.

We did make it to the dunes, which separated the town from...

...Sushil's first (nude) gay beach!

Eventually we saw a (the?) sight.

Actually, this was the sight: the world's gayest cocktail!

Shaun H. Coley ~ Shadwell ~ Tower Hamlets ~ London E1 ~ UK ~ shaunism.blogspot.co.uk

Sunday, 26 June 2016

[The Life of Shaun #529] Brexit blues

I am sad for my city. Working in an industry that's heavily dependent on the single market, I am worried about my place in it. But even if that turns out to be an unfounded fear, I am still anxious about the London of the future.

The thing I love the most about my city is its diversity and openness, both in mind and to the world. Londoners relish in dinner parties of ten with nine foreign guests, the cacophony of languages in the tube and on our streets, circles of friends of all hues, religions and histories. London feels like a world city in a way New York could only dream of, a capital city that citizens of the world can call their own.

None of that has changed in the 48 hours since middle England succumbed to a campaign of fear over facts, but London, and Britain, suddenly feel much smaller. The Big Smoke is no longer the economic and cultural epicentre of a continent, but an outsized capital of a diminishing country, that's been cut down at the knees by its insular, xenophobic hinterland.

I still love London, and want to stay here to be with my people and fight for it. But will I love the London of three, five or ten years hence? As Great Britain becomes Little England, as international mobility deteriorates and the churn of nationalities, people and ideas through our streets slows, what kind of city will it be? Will it continue to be the preeminent global city, or just a bigger version of Birmingham?

Of course it's too soon to make any life decisions, but I am mulling plan Bs. Should I move to the continent while I still can? If Scotland votes for independence, can I relocate to Glasgow in time to be swept back into the EU with it? Do I make a radical change and try something totally new? Trudeau's Canada seems a good fit, and I hear Wellington, New Zealand is awfully nice.

For now, I am still IN, but melancholy and disheartened - the very opposite of what it means to be a Londoner.

Shaun

Genital Autonomy - It's a personal choice

Shaun H. Coley ~ Shadwell ~ Tower Hamlets ~ London E1 ~ UK ~ shaunism.blogspot.co.uk

Saturday, 25 June 2016

[The Life of Shaun #528] Brexit

"A quick note on the first three tragedies.

Firstly, it was the working classes who voted for us to leave because they were economically disregarded, and it is they who will suffer the most in the short term. They have merely swapped one distant and unreachable elite for another.

Secondly, the younger generation has lost the right to live and work in 27 other countries. We will never know the full extent of the lost opportunities, friendships, marriages and experiences we will be denied. Freedom of movement was taken away by our parents, uncles, and grandparents in a parting blow to a generation that was already drowning in the debts of our predecessors.

Thirdly and perhaps most significantly, we now live in a post-factual democracy. When the facts met the myths they were as useless as bullets bouncing off the bodies of aliens in an HG Wells novel. When Michael Gove said, 'The British people are sick of experts', he was right. But can anybody tell me the last time a prevailing culture of anti-intellectualism has led to anything other than bigotry?"

-Nicholas, FT comment

"Fuck, fuck, fuck."

-Shaun H. Coley

Shaun H. Coley ~ Shadwell ~ Tower Hamlets ~ London E1 ~ UK ~ shaunism.blogspot.co.uk

Thursday, 16 June 2016

[The Life of Shaun #527] Modern Family

My niece, Danai, had to make a family tree for school this week. It's a mesh of nationalities, ethnicities, religions and sexualities, and it filled me with joy. This is our future; not the racist, nativist, divisive hate being peddled by Trump, Farage and the Right across the globe. They can strop all they want, but the world is changing. And what a wonderful world it will be.

Shaun H. Coley ~ Shadwell ~ Tower Hamlets ~ London E1 ~ UK ~ shaunism.blogspot.co.uk

Monday, 30 May 2016

[The Life of Shaun #526] Sushil & the City

In February, Sushil and I went to New York for Schnookums' XXth birthday, his first trip to the US. It was a quick whirlwind long weekend, as I'd eaten up all my holidays, but we managed to "do" all the biggies: 1WTC, 9/11 Memorial, Times Square, a Broadway show, Central Park, Pongsri Thai and Los Charritos.

For Rachel's birthday gift, I got us tickets to The Color Purple, newly revised on Broadway. I wanted to go see it as the film version is my favourite movie, and my top Idol, Jennifer Hudson, was playing the role of Shug Avery. She was great, but the star of the show turned out to be Cynthia Erivo, in her Broadway debut. She was absolutely stunning - I've honestly never seen anything like that on stage before; she got standing ovations in the middle of songs. Crazy, crazy good. If you go to New York while she's in the run, see the show, but you can get a taste here.

Visiting New York after so long away always makes me pensive, filled with thoughts of my years there, and the amazing friends I met and still have there. There wasn't too much opportunity for that this time around, though - there was a lot of drinkin' in Jersey to do - but it was still nice to show Sushil around America's greatest city so he could understand a bit better what's made me me.

Glad to have been a part of it, that old New York,

Shaun