Saturday, 19 April 2014

[The Life of Shaun #498] The Highlander

It's an experience I am glad to have had.  

Last weekend, I checked off a few far-flung items from my UK list: Loch Ness, Thurso and John O'Groats.  Loch Ness and its monster are something every American hears about from childhood, so it's on the list as it's one of those things you just do as a tourist in Scotland.  

John O'Groats is also fairly popular with Brits - especially the crazy cycling kind - as it is one terminus of the end-to-end journey across Britain, from Land's End in the Southwest, to John O'Groats in the Northeast.

Thurso is more obscure.  Many British people don't even know where it is, and most who do have never been and will never go.  It sneaked into my travel itinerary as I've been curious about it ever since reading Bill Bryson's Notes From a Small Island.  I have a longstanding interest in these edge-of-the-world towns, and Thurso is certainly one of those.  In the book, Bryson ends his picture of Thurso with a story about how the ladies of the town wake early each Saturday to catch a train down to Inverness, where they do their shopping, and then head back that night.  It seems so laborious to modern sensibilities, but what he notices is how happily expectant and content they all seem.  It sounds so quirky and charming, so I wanted to see this place for myself.


The first stop on most trips to the Scottish Highlands is Inverness, the capital of the Highlands, and as close as you get to a city in those parts.  It's pleasant enough: a compact city centre, with few glaring scars from the 70s, and a castle, all straddling the River Ness between rolling hills.  There were few noticeable chains, but the town's heart is dominated by a giant ill-thought shopping centre.  Still, the streets were lively, and there are enough restaurants and bars to pass a day, which is important as the wind never stops blowing in the Highlands, so you need sufficient indoor diversions to take shelter in.


The River Ness runs through the centre of town.


The riverside from the castle.


Handsome city-centre blocks.



Several small islands dot the river just West of the centre, which they have weaved together with bridges and paths.


I travelled all the way to Inverness to see my first 
desert bighorn sheep
, the state animal of Nevada.


Good-bye double rainbows from Inverness.



The next day, being a carless tourist in a sparsely populated region, I took a package boat-castle-bus Loch Ness tour for my shot at spotting Nessie.  The loch is huge; stretching far out in front of you, there's no way to take it all in at once.  The waters are deep and broody, it's squeezed between lush hills on both sides, and dotted with the occasional village, stately home or ruin, and the Highland winds churn the water, causing a bumpy ride, and occasionally throwing up a sheet of water, dowsing unsuspecting tourists.


On deck, battling the winds.


The ship's wake trails off into the distance.


Ruins of the castle along the shore.


This is why no one ever spots Nessie - she's hanging out in the much more agreeable sea monster spa in a nearby village.


The following morning was the four-hour train ride through the Highlands, which was actually quite beautiful.  Two years ago, I went to Norway and took the Bergen Railway, connecting Oslo to Bergen, which calls itself "Europe's greatest railway".  However, I thought this ride was much more impressive, and certainly more varied.  And it has the added advantage of not bankrupting you should you decide to have a drink along the way.


Quaint patriotic platform at Invergordon.


The tracks literally run just a few metres from the sea along long stretches of the journey.


And once you get inland, the scenery is changing and beautiful.


At the end of the ride, you arrive in Thurso, an outpost of nine thousand or so windburnt hearty souls at the edge of the British mainland.  The footprint of the town is actually larger than you'd expect of such a small population, as it has a proper city core and substantial residential neighbourhoods stretching out in all directions.  Its centre is walkable and austere, with monolithic lowrise grey buildings, bracing against the ceaseless winds, which got stronger the farther North I went.

Thurso is one if the oddest towns I've been to in Britain.  I've never been anywhere with streets that were so devoid of both people and cars - and I have been to some pretty desolate places.  You walk around the town, and it feels as if you pretty much have it to yourself.  However, go into a pub or a restaurant, and it is likely to be lively and full of happy, chattering patrons.  I don't know how they get from place to place without being seen.

I had the most pleasant part of they journey in Thurso, at a very unexpectedly lovely dinner at Le Bistro, an unassuming restaurant in the city centre.  After popping into several nearby venues, I decided to have dinner here based on a positive initial impression and vegetarian options that extended past the standard fare.  The venue is cozy and warm, the staff were authentically friendly, and the food interesting, honest and flavourful, the wine was fantastic, and none of it pretentious.  It's everything a restaurant should be, and to find it at the edge of world made it all the more special.  I was happy and smitten, à la Bryson, and left Thurso with a literal and proverbial good taste in my mouth.



Central Thurso, with a veritable traffic jam; Le Bistro on the left.


Even up here, you're never far away from a curry house.


Lots of rules for one bathroom.


And finally to John O'Groats - the end of the line.  There's not much there - a signpost, so you know you've made it, and various tourist cafes and shops, whose trade depends on bored tourists with an hour gap between busses and people waiting on the passenger ferry to the Orkney and Shetland Islands.  Which is just as well - with the worst wind of the trip, there was no desire to stay for more than the obligatory photo.


And there I am!



The local pub keeps toys on hand so children don't get bored while their parents drink.  How thoughtful those Scots are!

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Saturday, 29 March 2014

[The Life of Shaun #497] They Did

The UK has had civil partnerships - a modern version of "Separate, but Equal" - since just before I moved here.  But from today, we have equal marriage.  My friend Lou and his partner, Aarron, were one of the first couples to be legally joined in the new vernacular.  To some it might be nothing more than a semantic shift, but to everyone there today, it was certainly more.

Two moments really stood out:

At the ceremony, the Islington Council official got verklempt and had to pause before being able to continue the service.  She, and the others overseeing the ceremony, were genuinely and honestly happy to be part of this day.

At the afterpub, there was a wedding cake at one end of the room.  As God was smiling upon gay marriage, the weather was sunny and warm today, so the publican opened the doors and windows to the streets.  A mom, with her daughter of four or five, passed by, and stopped her daughter to point out the cake with two groomsmen on top.  From the body language and the smiles, you could see she was telling her daughter it was a good thing.  And indeed it was.

Congrats Lou and Aarron - and thank you for letting me be a part of it!







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Tuesday, 4 March 2014

[The Life of Shaun #496] Symphony of Sorrowful Songs

I've been tuning into Radio 3 a lot lately, rather than my normal go-to BBC World Service.  Radio 3 concentrates on classical, opera, culture, arts, as well as new works.  This morning, when I turned on my TV (which is, I suppose oddly, how I listen to the "radio"), this piece was playing, and I was instantly captivated.  It is stunning; I don't know how I'd never heard it before.

The piece the second movement of Henryk Górecki's Symphony of Sorrowful Songs.  The text is in Polish, a message written on the wall of a Gestapo cell during World War II.  For me, it's some of the most perfect music I've ever heard.


Cheers,
Shaun

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Thursday, 23 January 2014

[The Life of Shaun #495] Life of the party

Mom's been staying with me in my bedroom for most of the past year, but it didn't seem right that she would hang out in my room while we were next door playing cards, remembering her, and celebrating her life.  So I brought Mom out, sat her next to us, and gave her a Marlboro and a beer.  I think she had a great night.






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Wednesday, 22 January 2014

[The Life of Shaun #494] An empty chair at the table

My friend Rachel stayed with me this past Summer, during which time passed the anniversary of her father's death several years ago.  Every year on the anniversary, Rachel does something to honour the memory of her father.  As he was quite religious and a musician, we went to evensong and an organ recital at St. Paul's Cathedral.  It was a lovely day, and I thought it was a really nice way to remember him.

Wednesday marks one year since Mom died, and I want to do something to honour her memory.  I thought a bit about what Mom liked best in life, and we all know the answer to that: being around people she loved, drinking, smoking and playing cards.  That's exactly what I am going to do.  I've invited a few close friends over for beer, wine, pizza and Oh Hell, and Marco has agreed to break his no-smoking-in-London rule so I can outsource that part to him.  I think Mom would have loved it.

Cheers to you, Mama,
Shaun
















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Saturday, 4 January 2014

[The Life of Shaun #493] How well do you know Shaun?

Let's see how well you know Shaun in 2014!  :-)


Have a go and let me know how you did.

Good luck!

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Wednesday, 25 December 2013

[The Life of Shaun #492] Merry Christmas

In all honesty, it doesn't really feel like Christmas.  Perhaps that's willful, or maybe I just don't understand what Christmas without a Mom is yet.

When I think where I was a year ago - freezing in Chicagoland, with Mom, Dad, the rest of the family - it seems so impossibly distant.  And when I think about the weeks that followed Christmas, it drains me in a way that living through it never did.

But I'm also not sad.  I miss Mom, but I'm not sad.  Natasha has been staying with me while Marco's been home in Germany, so I am not alone.  My calendar has been full of travel, dinners, drinks and TV nights in.  I am living in a city I love, and a flat I love coming home to.

Maybe that's why it doesn't quite feel like Christmas.  I expected it to be harder, but mostly there is good in my life.  Mom's outlook on life was "live, laugh, love", and that's exactly what I'm doing.

Merry Christmas, Mama.  I love you.






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Wednesday, 11 December 2013

[The Life of Shaun #491] London Fog

Despite London's reputation, it is rarely foggy here.  Today was an exception; when I woke up, the first thing I noticed was the blanket of whiteness outside my window, eight stories up.  Winter is here, and I love it.  After an exceptionally hot Summer, there's something comforting about the heavy Winter air.  It feels nearer, closer in around you.  While the short days can be a drag, the acute angle of the sun this time of year creates lingering dawns and dusks, with sunrises and sunsets whose colours slowly roll across the sky.

Soon the days will start lengthening towards our glorious 10:30pm Summer sunsets, but for now I am loving Winter in my city.

Cheers,
Shaun




Surnise over Canary Wharf from my balcony last week.




23 dazzling photos of the fog enveloping London



Posted at 6:05 pm, December 11, 2013 in Photos of London

mpsinthesky thing

You probably noticed it was a bit foggy today. So did lots of other people. Some of them with cameras! So on that note, here are some great shots of London shrouded in fog, bathed in a golden winter light, and looking pretty banging.

The invisible Shard reflecting sunshine through the mist:

shard fog photo

 [Photo:@BillyBeefeater]

 The Millenium Bridge disappearing into nothingness:

dave pearce

[Photo: Dave Pearce]

The Shard appearing over a bank of mist:

kjalee shard fog

 [Photo: @kjalee]

The low winter sun over Kenwood Park:

kenwood house sally_mckay

[Photo: @sally_mckay]

The tops of Canary Wharf's buildings above the clouds:

canary wharf - lovetofunk

[Photo: @lovetofunk]

Waves of mist seen from Galvin at Windows:

view from galvin

[Photo: @fredsirieix1]

Sunlight beaming through Tower Bridge:

recborg tower bridge

The Metropolitan Police helicopter got a fantastic view:

london mpsinthesky

You can just about see the O2 arena:
dome mpsinthesky

And Canary Wharf, of course:
fog over canary wharf mpsinthesky

Jamesdolphin1 was passing overhead too:

jamesdolphin1 canaryfog

 Close to the ground, things took on a more dystopian edge:

pseudoboy

[Photo: @pseudoboy]

Though it made for a nice sunset in places:

wiljc

[Photo: @wiljc]

lilian_tsui

[photo: @lilian_tsui]

At Stratford station:

sheastevie

 [Photo: @sheastevie]

And at the Tate Modern:

sophiastvillier ig

[photo: sophiastvillier]

From an elevated office:

auketts ig

 [Photo: auketts]

In the park:

londonaperture

[Photo: londonaperture]

By the river:

therealmikeyboy london fobg

 [Photo: therealmikeyboy]

Looking towards Westminster:

mattpike ig

[Photo: mattpike]

Kristijonas Dirse

[Photo: Kristijonas Dirse]

And finally in Barnet:

barnet vale


[Photo: Phillip Rocker]





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